You can see the next crisis coming because you have cleaned up the last six. Abigail faces a dangerous moment caused by Nabal's insult and David's determination to retaliate. The story deserves careful attention before we turn her courage into another assignment for an exhausted woman.
Read 1 Samuel 25:14–35. Abigail learns what has happened, gathers provisions, and goes to meet David. She speaks directly about the bloodshed he is preparing to cause. Her words appeal to his responsibility before God.
David listens. He recognizes her good judgment and turns from the violence. Notice whose actions need confronting. Abigail's courage doesn't make Nabal's behavior acceptable, and it doesn't make David's threatened revenge righteous.
Wisdom has more than one response
This account doesn't require a reader to manage a dangerous person alone. A needed response may involve outside help, distance, a safety plan, or refusing another round of cleanup. Confrontation is not a devotional assignment when doing it would put you at risk.
Ask God for wisdom suited to the situation you are actually in. Then tell a trustworthy person what is happening. You may need more than one person's help, and you don't have to earn it by waiting until the next crisis.
A question to sit with
What pattern am I sustaining by repeatedly absorbing someone else's consequences?
You can take this slowly.